Hello, my name is Laurie of Laurie's Garlands. I realise it is never easy comforting a relative, friend or associate who has lost a loved one. And if you have lost somone, may I say I am truly sorry and may I lift you up in Prayer for Gods comfort and help during this season of greif. People are often uncertain as to the best way to show their sympathy. Adding to this uncertainty are changing trends in how Americans commemorate the death of a loved one. Services are simpler and shorter. Viewing periods are now typically limited to one day, if they occur at all. A greater number of cremations have resulted in shorter or no memorial services.
Guide to Common Terms for Sympathy Flowers Many people are unfamiliar with the terms used by florists for sympathy arrangements. The Society of American Florists has provided the following descriptions of the most commonly used terms:
Casket Spray: Flowers designed for the top of the casket - usually ordered by the family.
The Weeks Following the Funeral: Helping a Friend in Grief The funeral service is over. Friends and family have paid their respects and gone home. There are no more hectic plans to distract the grieving family, and the shock has worn off. They are now left feeling lost and alone.
I am here for you. It would be an honor to help you by making a very special floral arrangement to express your love and support. Laurie Kern |
Flowers have traditionally been sent to the funeral home for display during the viewing and service. However, this does not mean that there should be no show of sympathy if no service is held. Grief therapists agree that the rituals surrounding death are an aid in the grieving process as way to say goodbye. In instances where there is no service, experts recommend sending condolences to the bereaved person or family's home. 
Wreath: A floral presentation often used because a circle symbolizes eternal life. It is displayed on an easel, for easy viewing. Sent by family, friends and or church or the work place.
Floral Arrangement: A mix of fresh flowers displayed in a vase, basket or other container. Sent by family, friends and or church or the work place.
Experts say that although the initial outpouring of sympathy is a great comfort to a family that has lost a loved one, many people experiencing such a loss appreciate being thought of in the weeks and months after the funeral. Consider sending flowers or a plant with a personal note to the home of the bereaved. Your message of, "I'm here if you need me," will show the bereaved that no matter how much time passes, he or she can count on your support.